Community Rules

Last updated: September 2026

The Short Version

Our platform is built for genuine, safe connections between adults.

• Adults only — you must be 18 or older to use this app.
• Be authentic — represent yourself honestly at all times.
• Be respectful — harassment, hate, and discrimination have no place here.
• Consent is everything — always confirm and respect boundaries.
• Keep explicit content private — don’t share it publicly.
• Protect privacy — yours and everyone else’s.
• No illegal activity — ever.

Our Values

We believe everyone deserves a space to connect, express themselves, and explore who they are with pride and safety. Everything we do is guided by:

• Respect, inclusion, and care for one another
• Safety, honesty, and the right to privacy
• Sex positivity, consent, and personal well-being

These guidelines exist to make our community a place where everyone feels welcome. We believe in giving people a chance to correct their behavior — so we may issue warnings or remove content before taking stronger action. However, serious or repeated violations will result in permanent bans. We maintain a fair appeals process for all moderation decisions.

Safety, Authenticity & Privacy

1. Adults Only

You must be at least 18 years old to use this platform (or older where local law requires).

• Suspected underage accounts are banned immediately.
• Pretending to be a minor, for any reason, results in a permanent ban.
• Communicating with someone you know or believe to be a minor is a violation.
• No images of minors are permitted — in any context, including backgrounds or blurred faces.
• Zero tolerance for child sexual abuse material (CSAM). — We report all such content to the relevant national and international authorities, including law enforcement.

2. No Buying or Selling

This platform is for personal connections only — not commerce.

Not allowed:

• Asking for or offering money, gifts, or payments
• Advertising businesses, services, or events
• Escorting, findom, pay-to-play, or similar arrangements
• Sharing payment app details or financial account information

3. Be Yourself

Your profile should represent the real you.

• You may keep your profile discreet, but you may not impersonate others.
• Photos must be of you or created by you.
• No deepfakes, AI-generated likenesses, or synthetic media representing you.
• If your profile is reported as fake, we may ask you to verify your identity.

4. Respect Privacy

Don’t publicly share private information — yours or anyone else’s.

Not allowed on public profiles:

• Phone numbers, email addresses, or physical addresses
• Financial account details or payment app usernames
• Other people’s private information, chats, or images
• Outing someone’s identity without their consent

Respect & Inclusion

1. Treat Others Well

This is a space for people of all backgrounds, body types, genders, sexualities, and identities. Harassment and bullying are never acceptable.

Not allowed:

• Racism, including sexual racism and exclusionary language targeting marginalized groups
• Fetishization that dehumanizes people based on a single trait or identity
• Transphobia, misgendering, or discrimination based on gender identity
• Discrimination based on origin, orientation, health status, religion, or disability
• Body shaming, bullying, or repeated toxic behavior
• Promotion of hate groups or violent extremist organizations
• Promotion of conversion therapy or similar harmful practices

Express your preferences in a positive, inclusive way rather than through exclusion.

2. No Violence

We are committed to being a safe space.

Not allowed:

• Threats or violent behavior, online or offline
• Stalking, coercion, or entrapment of any kind
• Content that encourages self-harm or dangerous behavior
• Offensive memes or jokes that demean others

3. Community Integrity

Political expression and encouraging civic participation are welcome.

Spreading disinformation, manipulating others, or interfering with democratic processes is not allowed.

Health, Well-being & Consent

1. Support Each Other’s Well-being

• We do not allow profiles centered around drug content or irresponsible drug use.
• Buying or selling drugs of any kind is strictly prohibited.
• We do not allow health disinformation.
• Content depicting self-harm may be removed from public profiles to protect our community.

2. Consent is Essential

Always get clear, enthusiastic confirmation before sharing explicit content or engaging in sexual activity.

• Ask before sending explicit images or messages.
• Only share images of yourself. Share images of others only with their explicit consent.
• Consent is always reversible — anyone can change their mind at any time.
• Reports of non-consensual sharing or sexual assault are taken extremely seriously and will result in bans.

Image Guidelines

• Public profiles — Photos must be of you. No pornographic, violent, or illegal content.
• Private chats — Nudity is permitted, but violent or illegal content is never allowed.

Not allowed anywhere:

• Sexually explicit content (pornographic acts, exposed genitalia, bodily fluids)
• Images of minors in any context
• CSAM of any kind
• Images of others without their consent
• Violent, threatening, or deeply offensive imagery
• Weapons or drug paraphernalia as the primary focus
• Deepfakes or AI-generated images presented as yourself
• Commercial or advertising imagery
• Copyrighted images or images of celebrities/public figures

Reporting & Moderation

If you see something that violates these guidelines, please report it using the flag/report button on any profile or message. All reports are handled with discretion. Misuse of the reporting system is itself a violation of these guidelines.

These guidelines apply to all activity on our platform — profiles, chats, and in-person behavior that originates from connections made here.